Dear Michael,
I agree 100% with you and just wrote about the same to a member over private email.
I discovered NO WORDS today but by chance. In fact, I looked at the last message posted on our site and saw "Monochrome", opened the forum, posted a picture and, huge crime, commented on a photo which is definitively forbidden. So, I got a private message from the offended victim and apologised privately and then publically on the forum.
As you mentioned, mee too I learn from comments not from admires.
Best wishes,