<p>I do not know if DXO or Photoshop elements pays any attention to the Picture Control settings that the camera uses. I assume you are going to be shooting in NEF (raw) files. In that case you can use any Picture control setting as it will/can be changed in Post Processing.<br>
Personally, I shoot with Standard picture control and use the Nikon software for post processing, and that software does pay attention to the camera settings. </p>