<p>Interesting. It sounds to me like the OP needs some new friends. For the last several years I've done a calendar featuring a nearby wildlife sanctuary. I give 20 to 30 away to park rangers and shooting buddies and always receive praises and people asking about next year's calendar.</p>
<p>Last week, a ranger that was promoted to supervising ranger at another park up in the Rocky Mountains, invited me up to shoot his new park. He spent two-days, on duty and off duty, showing me the park and the national forest there and I'm invited up to see the aspen tree in fall, etc.</p>
<p>I also play trumpet in a couple of band, one classical and one jazz, and take a camera to every gig. I post the pix up on Flickr and invite everyone to look. I receive lots of thank yous and requests for permission to print, etc. My shots are used, with permission, on the band web pages, on poster and other publicity, with credit.</p>
<p>I'm Southern origin and now live in Colorado, always living in super friendly places, Maybe that's the difference.</p>