I just started reading this thread (it came up in a search for something else). I wonder if things have changed in the 10 years since it was last posted. I don't know about weddings, but I do know that more and more professional portrait studios put the CD or DVD into their packages. From the film days, I knew of wedding photographers that, at the end of the day, gave the bride a bag full of undeveloped film. Presumably charging appropriately. Maybe this is the unbundling that is coming in many places now.