If Only - (enlarge Plse)

I think we all have times when we sigh, and say to ourselves, 'If

Only'. 'If Only' we had done something a bit different, or not at all, or

if it only had been sunny instead of raining, or - well it is an endless

list I am sure. But I think one of my biggest 'If Only's' will always be

the ones where I've thought to myself - "If Only" I had said 'I am

sorry' or 'Spoke when I had the chance' - or 'Forgiven' someone

when I had the opportunity - or 'not been so quick to judge' -

or 'spoken a little kinder when my mood had dictated my 'tone' - or -

called that person when they were 'still alive', rather than

procrastinating because I was preoccupied with what I thought may

have been more important at the time. I hope as I go from day to

day, I will always remember to learn from my 'If Only's'. Or perhaps I

should say, make a POINT to learn. I have been guilty of being

too 'quick to judge a person' in the past, I really try to 'stop' myself

when I make the mistake of doing that one. It is one that can 'dictate'

the rest of someone's life, totally ruin the brushstrokes on a Painting,

or be just ike the 'Hue' and 'Saturation' sliders - the image can be so

distorted so 'quickly'. Yes, 'If Only'. They are not superficial words,

they are words that can 'change' many things for the better if we only

take the time to 'stop' and be aware that our actions and decisions

can change lives, or even our own - 'before we step off the curb'.

(rambing thoughts as usual, but your visits and comments are

always appreciated, most sincerely, Gail)

Really beautiful work with impressive lighting and colours, Gail!

 

Beautiful painting Gail, I'm sure in this painting there are no "If only's" :)

 

Love, Ulla

I don't know how you got this effect Gail , but it sure works beautifully ! Bill

i colori parlano della tua anima,e sono un complememto alle tue storie!

baci paul

NB.

il tuo entusiasmo della vita,si vede anche nelle piacevoli critiche :-))

I did read the introduction to this photo few times. I had one of my "If only" just few days back so your words and photograph really touched me. In this flower i can see all the circles of one "If only"

The white, when everything is fine. The black when you just said that word or made the quick judgement or spoke with mood dictated tone or....The red, "why i did it", "why i said it", " why i didnt call", "why i didnt say sorry"....The black and white, 100ths of options and questions, "can i do something", "is it too late", "was it just my mistake", "yes I can change the things", "no i cant do anything"....  The big black circle, what is done is done and nothing more can be done about it, soreness  and scars which hopefully the time will heal.

Thank you so much for your words and photograph. I will remeber it for a long time.

Thank you also for rating and leaving a comment for one of my photos.

Regards

Maria

Wow, you sure have insight. I really wasn't sure if anyone would pick up on the 'symbolism' of the colours and shapes. I almost included what they meant to me, but I tend to write more than I always figure I should. Thankyou! you did it for me and I think in a much more Poetic fashion. I am truly humbled that image could 'help' in your cause to reflect on your 'moment'. I think we will always continue throughout our lives to experience these, but there is much to be learned from these 'moment's. Hopefully we are stronger and much wiser for having them. THANKYOU for your comment. It has truly helped me to know there is another who could identify with the image and these 'moments' in our lives. Most sincerely, Gail

Gail, I like the textural appearance of this image, its like paint brush strokes, I think the right side is a bit distracting and is not needed. the flower is great.

Nice how the bottom petals sort of reach out in 3D to the viewer.  With your text, one might imagine it is in supplication with the western white purity.  The textures here are thick like paint, which is very cool.  Your musing is interesting -- just had that debate a day ago.  I am convinced that you can market this.  

The photo is artfully produced but your monologue and Maria's insight are both priceless... Thanks for sharing...  Mike

I'm glad to hear you enjoyed this composition Mike as well as the discussion that has followed. Many thanks for your kind words and support.

Well those are encouraging words! It actually looked pretty good when I printed it. The colour Palette is very calming actually. It would be nice if it could be marketed! Thankyou for that encouragement Donna!

Thankyou for your visit and support Richard, I think I may edit this one in numerous ways, thankyou for your sugggestion, kind regards, Gail

You've each been very kind in your critiquing of this image, and I do thank you for your support and visits. Always good to be encouraged along one's 'way'. Most sincerely, Gail

Very nice composition and fine elaboration! Ciao Sergio

A nice result with your idea for this subject,all look interesting and colors enhance it,compliments.

Many thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts on this image. I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Thankyou for those fine word of critique Sergio. Coming from you it certainly is a compliment.

Gail,

  Beautiful art work with wonderful colors & details.  You writing complete's this amazing work of art.  Take care, Patsy

This is an art with your excellent imagination.  Love it.  Best Regards,

Many thanks for those kind words Wanghan. I have missed you, hope you were on a 'holiday'. Kind regards, Gail

many thanks for your visit and very kind words, so glad you enjoyed this image.

It's always interesting to read your comments, Gail. I think you always take the time to reflect on things, somethng most of us could stand to do a bit more. I don't know what any of this has to do with this image so I'll simply agree with your sentiments and add that it's a terrific picture. Images don't exist in a vacuum; in some ways they are the result of the totality of our lives. Certainly taking the time to consider both our lives and our art can, at the very least, allow us to step back and take account of the patterns that define us.

Very beautiful art work with amazing colors !!! Regards, Tina

I found your foreword narrative very touching and I could relate to it, as I suspect most of the readers would be able to.  We make judgements and decisions based on our life experiences, but sometimes our life experiences themselves serve to cloud our judgement.  If a person steps out of a car and walks down our path, we will tend to have made several assumptions and judgements even before he knocks on the door to speak with us. We will base this on his appearance, even the appearance of his car, how he is dressed his hair colour etc. And we do this automatically without even thinking too hard about it. Its a hard one to call, because what we see relating to our past experiences is often what we refer to as our "sixth sense" and that can also be the very thing that warns of danger. I guess its all about trying to maintain a balanced perspective, and like the photographers objective of the same para phrase, its not always an easy task to achieve.

 

I like this very arty rendition Gail it has all the qualities and colours of a Monet. The post processing is enviable!

Best Regards

 

Alf