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I only put this in the Critique Forum so my I could share a few words

with my friends who 'visit' often, and have expressed their concern and

sent so many Prayers my way for Mom. She is in her last 'days' or

could be 'hours'. Her liver is not functioning, they are not giving her IV

fluids, (told me it would prolong the inevitable). This is very hard for me

to see. But last night Mom was pretty bright eyed when I visited. After

Dad had gone home to be with his thoughts, I stayed behind. I

encouraged her to drink some water and almost knowingly she

complied, and 'blew bubbles' from the straw...just to get me to laugh I

think'. I did what I cold to make her comfortable, and then we watched

a couple of shows on the TV to pass some time before she would fall

asleep. She didn't nod off at all. She encouraged me to go home and

rest, probably knowing I wouldn't sleep at all. Although I know I must,

just can't. I would like to thank all of you who have sent your prayers

across many oceans through this Medium of Photo.Net. Amazing what

you can do, even while sharing your Photos here. We are not just

Photographers, we are a Community who care for one another, and are

saddened when one of our own is experiencing 'life's troubles' that so

many have already experienced. It is the sharing of these experiences

that has helped hold me up, and I pray 'make me strong' for my Mom,

and of course my Dad and Brothers. I have not experienced the loss of

a parent (inlaws that I loved), but not my Family. The closest I have

come is loosing someone I have loved besides Grandparents, Aunts and

Uncles, is my first Dog Hayley, and that was hard enough. When I

get 'down and lonely' I will have Abbey to hold and love, and I know I will

always have those of you who have shown such tenderness,

thoughtfulness and gone out of your way to write me, or leave an

encouraging word or inquiry on my pages. God Bless You, and

thankyou for being such dear friends, HERE ON

PHOTO.NET......................most sincerely, Gail

Gail,

There are three timeless things that last-

Faith, Hope & Love.

The greatest of them is Love.

When one comes into the world, one needs help of others (mother & nurse).

When one leaves this world, we need to help one with our Love.

I have faced these situations many a occation & I can feel the state of your mind.Nothing much to say in words as it can only be felt.Only few words...Don't loose heart.Have faith in God.

Kallol

I think your Mom is very proud on you.. and she is right!!!

My thoughts are at you and your very emotional situation... 

Ruud.

You always gonna have my pray for your whole family to be in great health and happiness my friend and feel so sorry for whats your mom is going through at this time.

Wishing you all of the best my friend.

My dear friend Gail, death is a part of life, and memories are a part of living...sending you a big hug from Azores Islands - Anabela

Very fantastic and view and impressice a comment.. Well done.. Best regards.. 

Gail, Time is short but more than strong. you have to face it and You have to face this with a little smile. so be prepare for this because of your Dad and Family also. Good bless You. regards Subha.

"Always in your heart" and that's a place she will never leave. Hope you find peace with the circle of life Gail.

Thinking of you,  Bill

Gail, I watched my mother die also. I "let her go" so her suffering would stop. I know your pain, it lessens as times goes on. Keep the loving memories alive for always.

Hope all is well.

I wish all my best to your mother and all your family.

 

Gail,

   This is a beautiful tribute to your mom, I no she is so proud of your amazing talent & gift of art.  You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers as I no first had what you are going through.  I am here if you need a friend to email.  Take care, Patsy

Another very pretty image Gail, a reflection of your feelings I'm sure. Best wishes.

Thoughts and prayers with you... MJ

Many thanks for your concern, always, most sincerely, Gail

Many thanks for your concern, truly appreciated, my warmest regards, Gail

As always your support and concern has bolstered me in ways you can never know....thankyou dear friend, Gail

Many thanks my friend for your support always, but especially at this time, sincerely, Gail

Your thoughfulness is heartwarming and much appreciated, Gail

Thankyou for sharing your experience Liz, we had a real good talk and 'cry' today, I don't know why she is still here, it is really getting to her emotionally, her pain level could be much worse, but she only takes sips of water, no appetite. My Dad had 4 stents put in his heart on Monday, he is fine, home and today I think she was really worried about him....she was missing his presence terribly. She becomes more fragile every day, and is too hard to watch. Today is first time I broke down in front of her. But it was good. All of her children have visited except my brother out West. She seemed comforted by visits and phone calls. Her Birthday was today, so perhaps she is hanging on worried about Dad....it must be so difficult for her also, as her mind is still pretty sharp. Today will be difficult. Thankyou for 'advice', truly appreciated, Gail

I told Mom that today, she will never be farther away than my heart, where our 'memories' have safe harbour. Emotional day. Thankyou always for your concern, Gail

Thankyou for preparing me for what is to come, I don't know how I will react, but my mind and body is so weary, watching what is happening to  her is too hard, I pray she is 'set free' soon, thankyou dear Subha, Gail

thankyou for those kind words, very much appreciated, Gail

The Canaries, Azores....they all sound so beautiful.....thankyou for that big hug and those kind  and true words, you've been such a good friend, sincerely, Gail