Hi there, Here's my equipment, Canon 10D, 50mm/1.8, 85mm/1.8 & 70-300. I have 3 550ex flashes and the remote transmitter also a sto-fen softbox. Here's my issue, when I shoot portraits, I have trouble getting the catchlight in the subject's eyes. I do not like to use flash straight on the subject because it is harsh and unpleasing to the eye. Can anyone give me some tips for getting that catchlight in the eyes? I do not want to shoot straight on. I would rather bounce off the walls or use the sto-fen?