The last few posts about, " I'm about to do my first wedding " These people have been clueless. they are like people about to walk across a rope over a canyon with their eyes closed, saying well once in a parking lot i walked across the top of a curb stone. Why are we telling them anything but a very loud NO! I know why they will ignore us, so you try to help. I'm all for helping the ones that are at least near ready. But Come on, a point n shoot camera and a portfolio of 6 photos of their on kid sitting in the sun. Tell them NO.