How I got started............ one year in the making........

Discussion in 'Wedding and Event' started by anner, Feb 20, 2006.

  1. I've been very reflective over the last few days and I recently had
    someone ask me how I got started. I never thought to ask this
    question, but if I had considered wedding photography as a possible
    profession, I probably would have. From what I have seen, not many
    people are willing to share their beginning journeys with the general
    public, for whatever reason. Part of me fears that sharing my full
    story instead of maintaining some sort of anonymity will destroy any
    credibility that I have earned with other members of this forum, but
    it is my story for better or for worse. I have learned A LOT in the
    last year, and perhaps that will help to illuminate a path for someone
    who can't envision their own.

    First off, I want to congratulate everyone on making the first step
    toward doing something you love. No matter how risky it may seem,
    life is so much more fulfilling when you are pursuing something you
    can give your heart and soul to. When you do things out of passion
    and love, the world has a funny way of supporting you and helping you

    I decided to get into this because I wanted to help people, not
    necessarily because I thought I'd make a living out of it. The first
    wedding I did was for cost only. At the time I had just finished
    getting married and I had a great photographer who did my wedding for
    travel fees only. I thought, what a wonderful way to really help
    others out! Photography in my area starts at $2,500 for a decent
    photographer - and there wasn't much for people who couldn't afford
    that (now there's a lot!) At the time, I was still on a wedding
    planning message board sharing ideas and wedding advice when a girl
    posted about how one of her family members who had promised to
    photograph her wedding completely bailed out on her. I felt so bad
    for her, and some crazy cell in my brain decided to offer to take the
    place of her family member! To this point, photography had only been
    a hobby for me which I had developed through self-study in my free
    time. At the time, I only had an Olympus OM-10 manual focus, manual
    aperture camera that was a hand me down from an uncle. Now that I
    look back on this- WHAT IN THE WORLD WAS I THINKING?!

    In preparation for this first wedding, I needed people to practice on,
    so I started paying more attention to how I would photograph my
    friends weddings and I offered to do engagement portraits for free
    just so I could practice on my friends. One of my friends showed her
    engagement pictures to another friend who asked if I could do pictures
    for her too! I said sure and just asked if she could cover the cost
    of film and developing- she agreed. I started giving my friends
    mini-albums and photo gifts from the pictures I had taken at their
    weddings because I couldn't really afford to give them something nice
    from their registry (but apparently I could afford to snap off 6 rolls
    of film and pay for developing!) This apparently started a little bit
    of a buzz about my photography. I started getting more invitations to
    parties and concerts and people often asked if I was going to bring my
    camera. I also put everything I did online, on a simple website- not
    because I wanted to advertise, but because I wanted friends and family
    to view the pictures from the events without me having to make prints
    for everyone. Little did I realize, I was actually advertising myself
    as a wedding photographer without even knowing it!!!

    In preparation for the first wedding (cost only), I bought a new (but
    cheap) SLR film camera that had auto focus and a few zoom lenses to
    cover a variety of situations. I also bought a cheap prime lens for
    low light conditions (and because I loved the prime lenses that I
    already had on my OM-10). I also realized that I needed a better
    flash if I was going to make any kind of decent pictures in the
    reception hall. I studied A LOT about flash technique, which was
    something I hadn't studied before and determined that I needed a
    detachable flash that could swivel and tilt so that I could bounce the
    light off ceilings. I practiced a lot, but in retrospect, I should
    have practiced much more with the flash techniques because I still
    wasn't entirely comfortable with them for that first wedding.

    The biggest mistake I made for the first wedding was letting the
    couple choose the film and processing. They chose the cheapest film
    (Walmart Fuji Superia- maybe expired?!) and Walmart processing. The
    results were horrible. The colors were off, there was dust on the
    prints, the negatives were overexposed, etc. I was devastated. I
    salvaged what I could and had them redo everything possible (which
    they were not happy about and thus didn't put in any effort to making
    things better), but there were other problems which occurred in my
    camera that only after the fact did I realize something went wrong and
    I didn't even know it. Half of the formal shots were ruined due to a
    syncing problem with the flash and camera (probably because the flash
    was not entirely compatible with the camera). In retrospect, I
    shouldn't have used the flash for fill because it was a beautifully
    overcast day and there were no harsh shadows to compensate for.

    Other things went wrong with the wedding itself which upset the bride-
    like her crinoline which she picked up at the last minute didn't fit,
    her location was rained out and her guests weren't aware of a backup
    plan, so the ceremony went from being a nice location along a river to
    a VFW hall in front of a fireplace with cheap paper decorations. The
    bride was pissed and depressed and I had no idea how to help. Being a
    recent bride, I understood her devastation and I offered to restage
    her vows at the original location on a better day. I watched the
    clouds all day long and when it stopped raining for just a bit, I
    found a great place outdoors to have some pretty formals done. I
    assured her that no one would be able to tell from my shallow DoF and
    excellent background framing that the pretty location was actually a
    trailer park. Sure enough, unless you were there, no one would be
    able to tell from the pictures that it was anything other than a
    pretty park. She never did take me up on the offer to restage her vows.

    I did the best that I could with that wedding. I did it for free.
    Things happened to me that could have happened to anyone who wasn't a
    professional. It was a HUGE learning experience. If I had thought
    that I wanted to make a career out of wedding photography, I would
    have sought out a photographer to assist before attempting to do a
    wedding on my own. That would have been so much smarter, and so much
    less pressure than trying to figure out everything without having any
    prior experiences or mentors to learn from! I used the internet
    photography forums to help me out as much as they could. I was a
    lurker for a long time, absorbing every bit of information before
    asking redundant and simple questions that no one wanted to answer.
    Despite my utter devastation with this first experience, I found some
    personal satisfaction in being able to help someone who wasn't going
    to have anyone dedicated to capturing her special wedding memories if
    I hadn't stepped in. (In retrospect, I'm sure her family would have
    captured enough of the important stuff, but probably not the other
    candid stuff that I love.)

    Remember the friend of a friend who paid the costs for her engagement
    pictures? Apparently she liked her engagement pictures so much that
    she cancelled her professional photographer (who she must not have
    liked to begin with) and wanted to hire me for her June 2005 wedding.
    She had seen some of the other wedding pictures I had taken for
    friends online and felt comfortable that I would do the job the way
    she wanted. She stressed that she wanted to PAY me, not just cover my
    costs, so I thought $800 was a fair deal because it was half of what
    the cheapest photographer charged and would help me put money toward
    better equipment or more chances to practice. There really wasn't too
    much rationale behind and figure, and now I'm realizing the effects of

    In preparation for this second wedding, my first PAID wedding, I did a
    LOT more practicing. Now I knew what it was that I didn't know! I
    knew how important good film and good processing were, so I started
    practicing with better films and I tried every developer I could find
    to look for the best processing for her wedding images. The films
    impressed me, ultimately the processing did not. I found that simple
    mistakes like dust on the negatives happened no matter where I went!
    How could professional labs let this stuff slip by?! It was a pain to
    correct these simple mistakes over and over again on my images. It
    was a drain on my gas tank. I decided that I needed to have more
    control over the quality and production, so I went into debt to buy a
    great digital camera- a 20D. At the time it was the only product
    between a consumer $700 DSLR and a $5,000 ProDSLR. I also knew that I
    needed the best flash I could get, so I went into more debt and bought
    a 580EX. These investments eventually made me decide that I should
    probably try to help a few more people out with their weddings for an
    affordable price so that I could pay off the equipment.

    Going digital did a LOT to help my photography. I got instant
    feedback, practiced as much as I wanted (especially with flash
    technique), and was able to have control over the processing with no
    waiting for a developer or traveling back and forth between a lab. I
    had to buy an external hard drive in order to handle the huge files
    that I was adding to my computer, but it was all worth it. I also
    wanted to try out one of the online professional labs who hosted
    pictures for guests to view, so I shopped around to everyone that I
    could find. I learned that some of them just host the images for you
    and send you emails with orders. Some of them let you set your own
    prices and give you templates to customize. Some of them are full
    service labs that handle everything for you and also let you customize
    everything you need to. After signing up and inquiring with each
    service, they started sending me specials that would entice me to sign
    up with their service. Most of them had monthly or annual fees, but I
    figured I could cancel if I wasn't making enough money to support the
    costs. I ended up signing up with PICTage on a deal I couldn't
    refuse. I also liked that they sent me print samples for free and
    they took care of all the online fulfillment. The prints were
    beautiful, and the quality was the highest I had seen from any lab.
    Once I created an account with them, I was terrified that they were
    going to give me free advertising on the! I wasn't
    ready to go PRO! I didn't have a logo! I didn't even have a business
    name! I had to make one up, and fast!

    Remember- this was only 8 months ago! I put together a contract from
    different contracts that photographers had given me when I was wedding
    planning, and the rest is history. Since then, I have been
    overwhelmed with inquiries, and while I really love wedding
    photography, I never had a chance to sit down and make a business plan
    for myself. Things just kind of spiraled out of control and I felt
    trapped into offering these really low prices because I just viewed it
    as a hobby and desire to help people. People have since dragged me up
    and down the wall about raising my prices, so I finally did this year,
    but still not enough to make other photographers happy- just enough to
    help out brides in need and book last minute weddings when other
    photographers cancel on brides. Some of the best weddings have come
    from people who had someone cancel on them! Oddly enough. :)

    After June of 2005, I had 9 more brides book my services for that same
    year. Before I had even photographed their weddings, they were
    referring me all over the place. This year I have 16 weddings booked
    (just about every Saturday during prime season), and I would have a
    LOT more if I were taking weddings after mid-August (fall is so
    popular here). I'm still picking up last minute gigs and helping
    people out when they are in a bind. Most people are pleasantly
    suprised when they see their pictures. They never expected a back up
    plan would produce such nice results. I recently had a bride plan her
    whole wedding around my availability, and my sister is having her
    wedding on a Sunday so I can attend. This is just crazy to me, I've
    only been doing this for 8 months! I'm not famous!

    My husband is now looking for jobs out of state. He works in
    education, so I knew that if he got a job, we'd have to move at the
    end of August. Luckily I knew far enough in advance that I was able
    to avoid taking any work for the fall and my last wedding job will be
    finished with enough time for me to collect my senses and move to a
    new location. This move has been a blessing in disguise. Even if we
    do not move out of the area, I will now have time to re-think my
    photography as a business, and not just something that helps other
    people out. I will be able to put better boundaries on myself and
    what I can handle, and I will be able to take a better look at my work
    and its true worth.

    I got into this to help people out, but eventually I just became taken
    advantage of because I was so inexpensive. Some of my brides value me
    and some just booked me for the price. I want to have personal
    connections with all of my brides and I want all of them to choose me
    because of ME, not because of my price. I still want to help people
    out who can't afford much, but that will be something I'm going to
    have to negotiate within my overall plan.

    In a few days we will know about my husbands job and what the future
    holds. It may not give us a definite answer about moving, but it will
    definitely give us a better sense of what direction our lives will be
    taking us in the year ahead. My degree is in Music Education and I
    plan on looking for a full time public school teaching position in the
    fall. Wherever I end up, wedding photography will remain something
    that I do out of passion when I'm not teaching. I do not take the
    craft lightly, and I highly respect people who make their living from
    pursuing their passion. I will never stop learning about photography
    and how to better my technical savvy and creative eye because there is
    still so much that I can learn. I will be submitting my first set of
    photos for contest in a few days. Whether or not I win, I'm putting
    myself and my art out there for all to judge as a learning experience
    and an opportunity to grow. I am grateful that I can have these
    opportunities in my life, and the freedom to pursue them.

    So.... that may be sooo much more than you wanted to know, but I hope
    that it gives you a picture of my journey and how I got from point A
    to where I am now. If I were to start all over from a professional
    angle.. I would definitely find someone to be my mentor.,, other photography forums, or just local pros - these
    are all places to start and to put yourself out there. You may start
    by simply assisting and just observing instead of shooting yourself-
    but there is so much to be learned from that. I wish I had that
    opportunity- I almost had it and turned down a paying job for the
    chance, but the photographer cancelled on me. I learned on my own in
    spite of not getting the help I would have benefitted from. Joining
    professional organizations like the PPA, WPPI, and others will help
    you find the resources and make the connections you need to help
    yourself professionally. First and foremost- don't let anyone break
    your spirit, no matter how hard they try.

    All the best,

    PS. If you actually read all of this... you MUST be passionate about
    photography!! Now get out there and do something with it!
  2. Nah, I'll wait for the paperback version :)
  3. LOL!!! I don't blame you!
  4. Thanks for taking the time to write and post that information, it is very helpful.
  5. Anne, thanks for sharing your story! It means a lot to me. Please do continue to share your photographic adventures.

    I'll be shooting my first wedding February 25th, and I have to say your story is an inspiration to me....if you only knew.

  6. Wow!!! Anne I am impressed!!! And I did read all of it cause I to am very passionate about photography. I had a very great mentor, her name is Dar short for Darlene she was a Pro for over 20 years and took me under her wing many years ago, when the time came she pushed me out of the nest so to speak to go out on my solo flight. I have never looked back and I keep flying. I do miss Dar, this all took place in PA and I now live in SC for almost 3 years now. Here's to Passion and Mentors may we always do you proud!
  7. Anne,

    Thanks for the post... as I have started doing weddings for free it's nice to know pros have to grow,learn and use less than professional equipment just like the rookies on I have seen some photographers that are just getting into weddings get chewed up and spit out on this forum never to post again. I think your post should stay on this forum so all newcomers can read it...

    Thanks again

    Jonathan Jones
  8. It's so funny to hear someone else call me a "pro"... I still don't view myself that way and I
    question whether any other photographers in my market view me that way. In fact, I feel
    like they all still think I'm a "hack". What a horrible word to describe someone doing what
    they love!
  9. Anne -

    Thank you so much for your words of wisdom - truly an inspiring tale for those of us starting out. I wish you were in the DC area - I'd try to pick your brain even further!

    Best of luck with your upcoming move - hope that it is a great one!
  10. Thanks for posting that Anne. I've shot 2 weddings at cost for friends and another for a friend for $500 bucks. All were with the understanding that I had never done this before and that they were going to get what they get. I too researched and researched everything I could get my hands on prior to doing the weddings, but even so, the more I learn the more I understand how completely unprepared I was and lucky I was that things turned out well.

    I do have another friends wedding that I will be shooting in May which I feel better prepared for thanks in large part to this forum. Still though ... I've so far to go. You so often read from pro's who have spent so much time and money on formal education and mentoring under somebody that it can seem daunting to start from nowhere and hope to someday be able to make a career of this. It's nice to know that there are others out there starting in similar ways. For those that have all of the education, I respect you and the knowledge you bring both to your work and to this forum. For those that don't, I respect you as well for your guts (naivety? lol) in sticking it out and learning this craft.

    Anne, I hope things continue to go well for you and whether you move or not that your photography will continue to be a passionate part of your life.
  11. Go Anne go!! It was meant to be, and I mean that in the best way!! Now you have me all fired up for this Saturday's wedding. I'm going to get an award winning image out of it, I can feel it!!!
  12. I think you are too Colleen!! Now that you're in the WPJA, you've gotta cash in those free submissions for contests!
  13. Thank you, Anne. This is a great inspiration for me. I am about 1 year behind you. I just hope I can turn out to be as good of a photographer as you are!


    ~Aaron Lee
  14. Gosh Colleen, you got some really fine goodies in your gallery!

  15. Anne,

    You certainly have come a long way in a year. I suspect that it is as much personality as it is pricing and photo technique. I looked at one of your engagement slide shows and I could almost feel the rapport you had with the couple. You don't learn that in a book.

    You live near Rochester, do you not? I'm near Birmingham. I'd love to get together with you sometime and trade war stories over a coffee. Maybe we could lure some other forum lurkers, also.

  16. Anne, Love the title! I printed it to add to my nightly reading, can't wait! Thanks for sharing! I'm sure you will inspire many especially newbies like myself!
    Colleen, since Dan mentioned it, I peaked at your gallery and have to say how much I adore the boy and dog picture! Soooo sweet!
  17. Marv, I'd love to get together with other photo.netters. I was actually looking forward to a
    meeting with other PICTage members tomorrow, but a family obligation came up at the
    last minute. I was really looking forward to meeting some of those people too!!!! I know
    there are quite a few in Michigan who lurk more than they post. Maybe a photographer
    get together would bring them out of the woodwork. ;-)
  18. he he, I'll come if someone pays my air fare :)

    Thanks for sharing your story Anne, you are certainly an inspiration.
  19. Thank you for sharing this with us Anne!

    I'm pretty much a newbie here, I lurk much more than I post. As a beginner I frequently feel frustrated and overwhelmed by all there is to learn and by the changes in the industry--and wonder if I'm crazy to consider possibly entering this field as anything other than a hobbyist.

    Thank you for being so encouraging to those of us starting out. Your post is so inspirational---thank you!

    And yes, I read the whole post! LOL!

  20. Thanks Lauren and Dan! I try!
    Really, I never would have known when I met you on here last summer it was your first summer! This is a definite re-read to save in my printed files. Thanks for sharing
  22. Wow! What an inspiration! Congratulations!
    We should have success party for you! This is in such short time, it's actually amazing! You not only have talent you must be great with people (well I've been reading your posts here and know you are).

    All left to say is that I wish you GREAT pictures for this season and lots of fun!
  23. Anne,

    Ok. Let's plan a meet. I'm flexible right now, so pick a time and place that might be convenient. How about someplace along Rochester Rd. and not far from M59? That might be central enough for other forum lurkers, also.

  24. Thank you so much for your comments, really, it means so much to me. If I can help just
    one other person release their fear of pursuing something they are passionate about, than
    revealing myself was entirely worth it.

    I fear that some people may read this and negate my technical understanding because I
    never studied in a classroom with a directed curriculum. I want to assure the skeptics that
    I have done a lot of reading and a lot of applying that reading to real life situations.
    Perhaps even more-so because I wasn't required to, and because I did it out of pure
    interest. I started studying the optics of the eye in 5th grade, which morphed into an
    interest of how light behaves, which morphed into an interest in understanding
    photography. All of this was coupled with years of artistic training in different art school
    programs and museums.

    One thing I don't take for granted is that my education is "complete". Because of that, I'm
    constantly seeking new information. I don't feel like I "know it all" because someone gave
    me a paper with a seal on it. When someone brings up a topic that I haven't heard of or
    don't understand... I do my research. One of the easiest things I think we do naturally (for
    efficiency's sake) is dismiss topics and words which we don't understand instead of taking
    the time to research and understand them. Many of the answers are at our fingertips with
    the invention of the internet, but often times the REALLY good stuff is still sealed away in
    printed paper versions only available through a library. Some people in my generation
    have never even stepped into their community library! Did you know you can borrow (not
    rent) movies from the library? Like Academy Award winning movies? And cheesy romantic
    comdies too? :) (My mom's a librarian, I guess you could say I'm a bit of an advocate.)

    In the next five years I would like to pursue a Masters Degree in Fine Art. This is not to
    make me more credible (though that may be a side-effect), but rather to introduce me to
    things which I may not come into contact with in my self-study and need-to-know way of
    learning. I want to learn the obscure things which only certain people know about. ;-) Life
    is one big adventure for me and I'm always looking forward to the next journey.
  25. Anne,

    Thanks you SO much for this post. I'm finding myself starting on a ride that might resemble yours - I'd give details, but this is YOUR story, not mine - and the inspiration is invaluable.

  26. Anne, I think it's really great that you've shared all this. I think it should be a must read for all the people that post looking for tips on shooting their first wedding or those who post "I want to start my own wedding photography biz".
  27. Anne -

    What a wonderful read. It brought back fond memories of when I started out, warts and all. I think those who are considering a career in wedding photography can draw some inspiration from your experience.

    I'll this add to the conversation: If you want to go far in this business you have to be serious about the business side of wedding photography. I wasn't. I didn't care to keep up with sales taxes, contracts, Schedule Cs, etc. I got tired of it and after a couple of years I closed my wedding photography business (such as it was).

    I love photography as much as I ever have. I'm simply a 'serious' hobbiest now. Still, I thnk I'd enjoy photographying weddings again, but I'd only do it as the second shooter.

    Thanks for sharing and good luck.

  28. WM


    Thanks very much for sharing your journey Anne, appreciate it from a fellow budding shooter, who is still fumbling around. It is inspirational to know that you are getting along really well. All the best in your move and keep on posting ! Best wishes, Wee-Ming
  29. Thanks Anne for sharing.....I was lurking through these threads reading up on wedding photography myself. I have my 1st wedding coming up in April free of charge. I'm so excited!

    Thanks for all the help,
  30. I can't believe it's been 11 years since this post was made. What an amazing ride it's been. If you're curious about how a photography business can evolve over time, I've shared a lot of my journey on my blog over this last decade, and decided to pull together all of the interviews on changes and pivots in one post...
  31. As a failed Music Ed Major (piano proficiency + test anxiety) I now have an opportunity to work my photography business part time and potentially open a small music/portrait studio as well. I learned all the technical photography stuff from my fiance but he thinks I'm way better at the artsy fartsy portion. I also use our business to help local community choruses as well, since arts funding is lacking. I wonder if there is an innate correlation between the arts and brain function/learning- A lot of artists I know are not just one thing!
    Curious to know what your instrument is- and how you balance teaching and editing during the busy season!
  32. Adrienne - This post was written 11 years ago... you may be interested in watching my TEDx Talk to see how it all has turned out for me to date....

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