A family member (that I see perhaps once a year) discovered that I started doing photography professionally, and have a son a little older than me who is getting married. Thing is, in my mind a personal family occation and the idea of working efficiently don't seem to play to well in my mind. Not something I've done before, but it doesn't seem to gel too well in my mind. He mentioned fairly casually about "family discount" (with a wink of course)... this was all in passing some weeks ago for their wedding next year. It is early days for me, but I've always liked to keep what I call "work" and social/family/friends seperate. The idea of charging family at all seems odd. Then the idea of doing all that work for free seems impossible. Then the idea of doing some sort of discount and taking work away from someone else doesn't feel nice either. Then they might see it as me letting them down with me being family. See the dilemma? Or am I fussing over nothing?