I will be shooting a my first wedding and have tons of time to prepare (about 12 months). The chapel is local, so I will be shooting many test rolls, etc. The question is have is about flash photography. I will be using a nikon sb28 flash on a n90s body with stroboframe flash bracket. I want to have the least harsh light come from the flash unit. Is it better to go with an Omnibounce or something more like a Lumiquest product to place over the flash head? Also, I've heard the Omnibounce comes in a gold version and in contrast some of the Lumiquests have gold interiors as well. What is the best set-up or does all of this come down to personal preference? I liked the idea of the Omnibounce for simplicity or on/off flash and it's low cost. But, I really need what will produce the most flattering photographs. I will be shooting Fuji NPS or NPH depending on meter readings. Also, with either of these products on the flash is it best to tilt the head at a 45 degree angle?