<p>Two really well thought out answers here. I hope Fred and Lex will read my belated response.<br>
<br />First, Fred. You and I are on the same page regarding this subject except I think you're more rare than you claim. I find younger people may accept other types of sexuality, but in a lot of ways they are digging their heals deeper into their own identification. They may accept the other, but they don't want to be mistaken for it. I also find - living in the Bay Area - that overt sexism is becoming cool again. You can see it in the art of David Choe, who's sexually violent work adorns the walls of Facebook. Choe, btw, has confessed to rape without admitting to it. Grok that one.</p>
<p>What I see, whether its in cheesecake or in superficially more complex work like Choe's, is women's bodies being used over and over to provoke. They make you feel sad, or disgusted, or shocked, or titillated. But they never tell you the story of the woman. After awhile you get the sense you're not looking at the artists' best. You're looking at a cheap trope.</p>
<p>Lex, you had me nodding for your first paragraph, but then you veered into some bad territory. I understand there is a certain sense of rebellion in embracing "real women" as opposed to the kind of emaciated look media often feeds us. I wrote an article about how a curvy woman is short hand for f*ck-budy in most fiction while the man often ends up settling down with the skinny girl. I call it the Jackie O. vs Marilyn trope.</p>
<p>But the real problem is the judgement here. The idea that there is a "real woman", or a certain attractive woman. These judgements are only skin deep. It says nothing about the person. It's great that different kinds of bodies can be found beautiful, but equal opportunity exploitation of women is still exploitation of women. And there should be no need to bring down one side in order to bring up another. Archetypes? Who is to judge what the ideal of a woman is?</p>
<p>The idea that men are equally exploited sounds good, but it doesn't hold much water. When you see a buff superhero you are seeing muscles. They are there for his own power, his own enjoyment. Muscle equals strength. There is no power in ginormous boobs. They don't crush enemies or help leap tall buildings. They don't add to the statue of the character. They are just there to excite the (male) audience. Unless those boobs are feeding someone they have no function other than the sexual. Take a look at this link to see what actual male exploitation would look like: http://io9.com/here-is-the-male-version-of-power-girls-boob-window-1564780945 . Notice that in the process of actually sexualizing a man we take away some of his traditional masculinity. He looks feminized because sexual display for the approval of others is considered only the domain of women.</p>
<p>Plus we have to get into the area of how a character's worth is perceived. Women's worth is based solely on looks, men's are not. Look at any TV show that has a portly, old, or generally dumpy guy married to a hot wife - The Honey Mooners, King of Queens, Raymond, Modern Family, etc. It never goes the other way. Those guys are funny, charming, hard working, etc. The wives are just hot. And often times ball-busters.</p>