<p>I also should add my vote to earlier responses that suggested taking the photos before the performance begins or during rehearsal or like when the band members first show up and are setting up. You just want a good picture of your child in the band surrounding. So, it can be "posed" with the people and instruments around. Using a DSLR, I have just walked up to the band members as they have been setting up and sitting and made the shot. Not all of them are there yet and others are milling around. So, I just walk in among them, get my son and some of his other performers seated around him.</p>