<p>If your wife has really shot 20-30 weddings herself, she NEVER should have hired a photographer who did not ask you sign a contract. That would have been a HUGE RED FLAG for me immediately. Unfortunately, without a contract, you don't have much to fall back on. It sounds to me like you did not do your research ahead of time, you hired an inexperienced and unprofessional photographer, and you got what you paid for.</p>
<p>How do you know that she did not shoot in RAW? Did you ask her for the RAW files or are you making that assumption based on the files that she delivered to you? Most professional photographs will not release RAW files to clients.</p>